Nicole Kidman won't be making any Christmas toasts with her new country music star husband who is in the Betty Ford Clinic after relapsing into alcoholism.

The Mail on Sunday reported Kidman would have to visit Keith Urban, also an admitted former crack addict, in Palm Springs at the clinic where she has been photographed hugging him. The pair has been married six months.

While the couple's publicists have issued statements to the Mail stressing Keith's shame at having let down his new bride, an old girlfriend surfaced, making claims the country singer was carrying on with her throughout his courtship and engagement to Kidman.

Amanda Wyatt, 23, a self-professed "nobody," told the Mail, "I hope their marriage works, but leopards don't change their spots."

Wyatt also said Urban was perpetually drunk and stoned throughout their lengthy affair.